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Jennifer Gilman

Jennifer Gilman, LMFT

California

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California LMFT - Guilt and shame focus

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Evidence-based techniques

About Jennifer

Jennifer Gilman is a California licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, with 32 years of clinical experience. She works with adults who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting concerns, relationship and intimacy issues, and identity questions. Jennifer also supports people dealing with trauma, addiction, eating and sleeping concerns, attention differences, and compassion fatigue.

Her sessions tend to be direct and practical. She listens to the story a person brings and helps them name what keeps them stuck. Then she and the client try concrete steps to change patterns, improve communication, and manage strong feelings. Therapy covers both immediate coping skills and longer term patterns that affect relationships and self-worth.

Jennifer draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques and uses a collaborative style. She works with people from diverse backgrounds, including those who identify as LGBT. She pays attention to attachment and abandonment themes when those issues come up, and she addresses caregiver stress and blended family dynamics when relevant.

Clients can expect focused work around problems such as anger, self-esteem, career stress, bipolar management, and intimacy-related difficulties. She also supports people exploring kink and alternative sexual cultures without judgment. Practical skills for sleeping, eating, and daily routines are included when those areas are a struggle.

Her practice operates in California and sessions are conducted in English. The subscription fee structure for sessions can be canceled at any time. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the online process.

How therapeutic methods translate to online sessions

Jennifer uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques in clear, usable ways. One approach focuses on identifying patterns of thought and behavior that feed guilt or shame, then testing small behavioral changes to see what shifts. This helps with anxiety, mood, and relationship patterns. Another approach attends to attachment and abandonment themes by tracking how past relationships shape current reactions, which can clarify why certain situations trigger shame or withdrawal.

Deciding which method to use is a collaborative process. The therapist and client review goals, history, and what feels most relevant, then try an approach and adjust it based on what helps. That means techniques may change over several sessions as needs and preferences become clearer.

The biography does not list specific session delivery formats, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also lets conversations continue across life transitions so work on guilt, shame, relationships and routines can move forward without major schedule disruption.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

32+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting, relationship and intimacy issues, and many related concerns such as addiction, ADHD, and compassion fatigue.

How would she approach shame or guilt?

She uses evidence-based techniques in a practical way: naming the feeling, tracing how it shows up in behavior, and trying concrete steps to change unhelpful patterns.

What is her background and experience?

She is an LMFT in California with 32 years of clinical experience working with adults on a wide range of emotional and relational issues.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She practices in California and holds the LMFT credential, listed as CA LMFT.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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