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Irene Ledee-Farley

Irene Ledee-Farley, LCSW

New York

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Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Guilt and shame, Relationships

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Guilt and shame

About Irene

Irene Ledee-Farley is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New York with three years of clinical experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, depression, and guilt and shame. Sessions focus on real concerns like parenting stress, grief, addiction-related strain, and problems with intimacy or communication.

Her approach is straightforward and conversational. She listens for what matters most and then talks through practical ways to manage feelings and decisions. Sessions look at patterns such as abandonment, attachment wounds, control issues, and codependency. Irene also addresses concerns tied to gender dysphoria, kink and alternative sexual cultures, and autism and Asperger Syndrome when relevant to the person.

She brings attention to how past events shape present reactions. For people wrestling with guilt or shame she helps name where those feelings come from and what keeps them active. Work can include learning to notice dissociation, handling anger and managing compassion fatigue or caregiver stress.

Irene also helps with career-related stress, bipolar management challenges, and major life transitions. She uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide sessions toward clearer choices and steadier emotional responses. The emphasis is on practical steps rather than long explanations.

Sessions are conducted in English and take place with her New York license in mind. Before booking, readers should confirm current session formats and scheduling options. To start a first appointment, follow the site matching and scheduling process.

How therapeutic approaches guide online sessions

Many evidence-based approaches focus on changing how people think, feel, and behave in everyday life. Cognitive techniques help identify unhelpful thoughts that fuel guilt or shame and test new, less punishing ways of thinking. These techniques often include short exercises and practical homework to try between sessions.

Trauma-informed strategies pay attention to how past events affect present reactions. This approach focuses on stabilizing intense emotions, recognizing dissociation, and building skills to tolerate difficult memories without getting overwhelmed. It can be useful for people managing trauma, abuse, or long-standing shame related to past experiences.

Finding the right method is usually collaborative. The therapist will discuss what feels most useful and adjust methods as needs and goals become clearer. Clients and the therapist decide together whether to emphasize thought-focused work, trauma stabilization, or other techniques.

Session formats were not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work, caregiving, or medical appointments. It can also allow shorter check-ins when needed, reduce travel time, and make scheduling more flexible while still focusing on concrete steps to address guilt, shame, and related concerns.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDomestic violenceFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issues

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of guilt or shame does she work with?

She works with guilt and shame related to relationships, family, faith, past trauma, and choices people made or avoided.

How would she approach feelings of guilt or shame?

Her style is conversational and practical. She helps clients name where feelings come from and tries out concrete ways to reduce their intensity.

What experience does she bring to this work?

She has three years of professional clinical experience and focuses on concerns such as trauma, grief, addictions, and intimacy-related issues.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in New York and practices based on that credential and location.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography did not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the site process.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Irene Ledee-FarleyLCSW

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