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Esther Enaruwe

Esther Enaruwe, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Guilt and shame, anxiety

  • Client-centred work
  • CBT techniques
  • Trauma aware

About Esther

Esther Enaruwe is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with three years of practice experience. She works with people carrying stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression and problems around relationships and identity. Esther also lists support for issues such as addiction, grief, eating and sleeping problems, parenting pressures and ADHD. She accepts international clients and offers sessions in English.

Esther writes openly about her own early fears of starting therapy and uses that understanding in her work. She aims to make it easier for people who feel judged or ashamed about what they have done or who they are. Conversations focus on practical ways to talk through painful memories, shame or guilt without rushing anyone to explain everything at once.

Her practice draws on client-centred ideas that prioritise the client's experience, and on cognitive behavioural techniques to look at unhelpful thinking and behaviour. She also uses psychodynamic and existential ideas to help people consider how past patterns and personal meaning shape current feelings. Sessions tend to be straightforward and conversational, with space to reflect and to try different ways of coping.

Esther works with a wide range of concerns including abandonment and attachment issues, body image, chronic illness, commitment and communication problems, domestic violence and substance issues. She also supports people dealing with career stresses, compassion fatigue and fatherhood-related questions. Her approach is practical, down-to-earth and aimed at helping people make manageable changes.

To begin, people are invited to complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange a first session. Esther uses a subscription model for sessions, which can be cancelled at any time, and she asks people to confirm session options before booking.

How her approaches can work in online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting what a person says. It helps people feel heard and clarify their own thoughts about guilt or shame. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or CBT looks at patterns of thinking and behaviour and offers practical steps to test and change unhelpful habits.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Esther will discuss goals and preferences and will help decide whether client-centred listening, CBT strategies or psychodynamic or existential ideas suit the situation. That choice is collaborative and can change over time as needs shift.

The original biography does not list which session formats she uses, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online sessions useful because they save travel time, can fit into a work break and allow easier access when mobility or location makes in-person visits difficult. Phone sessions can be useful for shorter check-ins or when video would be difficult, and video sessions allow for face-to-face conversation without a commute. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists commonly offer a mix of formats to help sessions fit into everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of guilt or shame does she work with?

She lists concerns such as trauma, relationship problems, body image, addiction and family of origin issues that commonly involve guilt or shame.

How does she approach feelings of guilt or shame?

Her work is conversational and practical, using client-centred listening alongside cognitive behavioural techniques and psychodynamic ideas to examine thoughts and past patterns.

What is her professional background?

She has three years of experience working as a counsellor and describes personal experience of initial therapy hesitancy that informs her practice.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

What session formats does she offer?

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Esther EnaruweBACP

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