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Rosa Tomassi-Bella

Rosa Tomassi-Bella, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Stress and relationships

  • Person-centred approach
  • Attachment perspectives
  • Mindfulness practices

About Rosa

Rosa Tomassi-Bella is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with nine years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief and loss, and intimacy-related concerns. Rosa also supports issues around self-esteem, coping with life changes, LGBT matters and family-related pressures.

Rosa trained in psychology and clinical and health psychology at university level. She does not work as a psychologist, but her BSc and MSc inform her counselling. That background shapes how she notices the links between body and mind and how she frames conversations in sessions.

Her main style is person-centred, which means sessions focus on the client’s experience and values. She pays attention to the relationship in the room and aims for steady, paced conversations rather than rushing to solutions. Clients are invited to reflect and shape the work as it goes along.

Rosa also draws on psychodynamic ideas and attachment-based perspectives to understand patterns that repeat in relationships. Jungian concepts and mindfulness practices may be used to help people notice feelings and inner imagery. Worksheets and journaling prompts are offered when they fit the individual’s way of working.

She offers online sessions across cultures and borders and frames sessions to be manageable and respectful of each person’s rhythm. The practical aim is clearer thinking about hard feelings and steadier ways of coping with them, including guilt and shame when those emerge.

People who want to explore how past experiences shape current feelings may find this approach useful. Rosa encourages short steps, reflection between meetings, and collaborative decisions about pace and focus.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Rosa uses a person-centred style that keeps the focus on the client’s experience and values. In practice this means sessions are conversational, paced by the client, and driven by what matters to them right now. This approach helps when people bring complex feelings like guilt or shame because the work begins from their own account.

She also draws on attachment-based ideas to look at patterns in close relationships. Attachment perspectives help people see how early relationships shape responses to loss, trust and intimacy. Psychodynamic and Jungian notions are used to notice repeating patterns, imagery and underlying themes that appear in relationships and personal meaning.

Finding the right approach is treated as a shared task. Rosa works with each person to decide which methods to try, guided by their goals and preferences. That collaborative stance means the plan can change as understanding grows and new priorities emerge.

Confirm the exact online session formats before booking because they are not specified in the biography. In general, online work can make fitting therapy into everyday life easier - it can reduce travel, allow shorter check-ins around a busy day, and give access across borders. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt worksheets and mindfulness practices to suit video or phone sessions so the work continues between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem and intimacy-related issues among others.

How would she approach feelings of guilt or shame?

She uses a person-centred way of working combined with attachment and psychodynamic ideas to help people talk through where guilt and shame come from and how they affect relationships.

What experience does she bring?

She has nine years of clinical counselling experience and an academic background in psychology and clinical and health psychology that informs her practice.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in other languages or with international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified in the biography.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Rosa Tomassi-BellaBACP

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