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Victoria Martin

Victoria Martin, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - relationships and guilt

  • Client-Centred approach
  • Emotionally-Focused work
  • Gottman Method insights

About Victoria

Victoria Martin is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with five years of experience. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns among many other issues. Victoria focuses on helping people who are carrying guilt and shame, and those struggling with parenting, grief, addiction and self-esteem problems.

She approaches work believing the client is the expert on their own story. Sessions aim to build on a person’s strengths and to make practical steps for change. Conversations are straightforward and paced to what the client can manage.

Victoria uses Client-Centred methods to listen closely and follow what matters most to the person. She also draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy to look at how feelings shape relationships, and psychodynamic ideas to consider patterns that repeat over time. The Gottman Method informs her work around couple communication and conflict when relationship issues arise.

In practice she helps people untangle how guilt or shame link to their relationships, family history or personal choices. She supports people working through life changes, isolation, body image and intimacy concerns. Sessions include talking through feelings, noticing recurring patterns, and trying small changes between meetings.

Victoria accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English. Before booking, readers should confirm the available session formats and practical arrangements for their location.

How her therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting what matters to the client. Online sessions using this approach allow the counsellor to follow the client’s pace and highlight the person’s own strengths and choices. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) concentrates on feelings in relationships and helps people notice how their emotional responses affect closeness and conflict. EFT can be used online to map patterns and try new ways of responding in relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Victoria will discuss what feels most helpful and adjust the focus as goals and needs become clearer. That means deciding together whether to prioritise exploring emotions, relationship patterns, or past dynamics and testing what works across sessions.

The profile does not specify which session formats are offered, so please confirm the options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing meetings from different locations. They also let people choose quieter or shorter check-ins when needed, and make it simpler to attend from another time zone if you live elsewhere. Registered or accredited professionals can discuss practical arrangements and adapt session length to suit work, family or other commitments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues and a wide range of other concerns including grief, addictions, body image and guilt and shame.

How would she approach shame or guilt?

She uses a Client-Centred stance to listen first and then draws on Emotionally-Focused and psychodynamic ideas to explore how feelings and past patterns keep those emotions active.

What experience does she have?

She has five years of professional experience working with people on relationship, parenting and mental health concerns.

What is her professional credential and location?

She holds BACP registration and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Yes, she accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does cost work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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