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Lindsey Hemmings

Lindsey Hemmings, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Stress and grief

  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Guilt and shame work
  • Life change support

About Lindsey

Lindsey Hemmings is a BACP-registered counsellor working in the United Kingdom with 20 years of professional experience. She helps people who are living with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem and the challenges of life change. She also addresses concerns tied to abandonment, attachment, codependency and guilt and shame.

She uses a psychodynamic approach to understand how past relationships and early experiences shape current feelings and behaviours. Sessions focus on making patterns clearer so people can choose different ways of responding. Lindsey listens for recurring themes such as control issues, avoidance, or repeated relationship difficulties and brings those into the conversation.

Practical problems such as divorce, separation, infidelity and midlife questions are explored alongside emotional material. She works with feelings of isolation, shame and struggles with self-love, and helps people weigh options and next steps when life shifts feel overwhelming. The work may look at how coping strategies helped in the past and whether they still serve the person now.

Lindsey aims to create an open space where thoughts and feelings can be spoken about without judgment. She encourages straightforward conversation about what is hard, confusing or painful. People are invited to try things differently and notice what changes from session to session.

To begin, people choose the online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session. Fees vary by location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

Psychodynamic work online and what it looks like

Psychodynamic Therapy focuses on how earlier relationships and repeated patterns influence present feelings and behaviour. It often involves noticing recurring themes and exploring how past experiences shape reactions to stress, loss or relationship problems.

In sessions the therapist and client talk about thoughts, feelings and events that come up between meetings as well as what happens during the session. This approach can help with issues such as grief, shame, anxiety and problems rooted in attachment or control. The emphasis is on understanding patterns rather than quick fixes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs together with the client, and adjust the way they work as clarity grows. Decisions about pace, focus and techniques are made collaboratively rather than assumed from the start.

The biography does not list specific online formats, so please confirm current session options before booking. Many people find remote sessions easier to fit around work and family commitments, or useful when travel is difficult. Practical advantages include shorter check-ins, the option to avoid video if needed, and the ability to schedule meetings at times that suit a busy day.

Areas of expertise

Therapeutic approaches

Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lindsey work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem and coping with life changes. The profile also lists issues such as abandonment, attachment problems, codependency and guilt and shame.

How does she approach feelings of guilt and shame?

She uses a psychodynamic approach to look at how past relationships and patterns influence current feelings. The focus is on naming patterns and understanding where those emotions come from.

What is her professional background?

She has 20 years of professional work experience helping people with emotional and life difficulties. That experience informs how she listens for recurring themes in sessions.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is BACP registered and based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients. Conversations are conducted in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Lindsey HemmingsBACP

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