- stress and anxiety
- LGBT relationships
- sexuality and kink
About Brandi
Brandi Loudermilk is a KS LCMFT - Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist with 10 years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, and people in the LGBT community who want clearer ways of relating.
She has spent a decade helping people talk through sexual concerns, consensual non-monogamy, and BDSM or kink matters. She also sees clients with attachment concerns, dissociation, codependency, commitment and control issues, and those navigating separation or blended family changes. Her background includes work with neurodiversity and severe or persistent mental health presentations.
In sessions she focuses on practical skill-building for relationships and individual coping. Conversations move toward clearer communication, boundaries, and strategies to manage distress. She aims to make tasks concrete so clients can try different approaches between meetings.
Brandi describes her practice as open to societally non-traditional relationship systems and to people from the LGBTQIA community. She frames change as a step-by-step process and supports clients as they test new behaviors and patterns.
She is based in Kansas and uses her clinical training to support people who want different results in their relationships or personal well-being. Start by thinking about one specific situation you want to address, and bring that to the first visit.
How Brandi uses evidence-based approaches in online care
Brandi works from evidence-based therapeutic techniques that emphasize communication skills and behavior change. One common approach focuses on teaching specific interpersonal skills - how to state needs, set boundaries, and negotiate agreements - which is helpful for relationship or intimacy-related struggles.Another approach emphasizes small behavior experiments and coping strategies to reduce anxiety and intrusive self-blame. These exercises aim to break unhelpful patterns and make new responses easier to repeat in everyday life.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will collaborate with clients to pick methods that match goals, comfort level, and the issues they bring. That means testing an approach and adapting it as needed rather than sticking to a single method.
The biography does not specify which online session formats are offered, so confirm the available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy days, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so clients can use a lunch break or an evening slot more easily. Therapists and licensed professionals commonly adapt exercises to work well across different session formats, helping clients practice skills in real life between appointments.
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Experience
10+ years
Listed in
Kansas
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of issues does she work with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, and people from the LGBT community, plus related issues like attachment, codependency, and sexual concerns.
How does she approach guilt or shame linked to relationships?
She uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to focus conversations on communication, boundaries, and practical skills that help people act differently and reduce persistent self-blame.
What is her professional background?
She has 10 years of clinical experience working with a range of presenting issues including sexual concerns, consensual non-monogamy, BDSM/kink, and serious mental health presentations.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a KS LCMFT - Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Kansas.
Does she offer sessions in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients.
What formats are used for sessions?
The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.