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Deborah Smith

Deborah Smith, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Guilt and relationships

  • Addictions
  • Attachment work
  • Mindfulness

About Deborah

Deborah Smith is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with 11 years of experience. She works with adults who are carrying guilt and shame alongside issues such as addictions, trauma, relationship difficulties, parenting strain, depression and anxiety. Sessions are conducted in English and she focuses on helping people talk through what is troubling them so they can decide on next steps.

Deborah adopts an approach that treats the client as the expert on their own life. She uses client-centred principles to listen and reflect rather than to direct. That means conversations focus on the person’s experience and the choices they want to explore.

Attachment-Based ideas appear in her work to help people understand how early relationships shape current patterns. Mindfulness techniques are used to bring attention into the present moment and to notice difficult feelings without acting on them immediately. Trauma-Focused practices guide work when past harm is a central concern.

In practical terms Deborah aims for steady, understandable sessions. She helps people name what they feel, look at how those feelings affect behaviour, and try small changes to test what might help. Where necessary she also works with issues around body image, codependency, dissociation, grief and eating concerns.

Those interested in starting are invited to follow the service process to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. She does not accept international clients, and sessions are held in English only.

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Deborah uses client-centred work to prioritise the person’s perspective. This approach means conversations focus on what matters most to the client and the counsellor reflects that back so options become clearer. It is useful for people sorting through relationship issues, guilt or decisions about parenting.

She also draws on Trauma-Focused Therapy when past harm affects current life. This approach looks at how traumatic experiences shaped responses and supports step-by-step work to reduce the grip of those memories and reactions. Trauma-focused work can help with symptoms linked to abuse, domestic violence and other trauma-related concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Deborah will work collaboratively to decide which combination of client-centred, attachment or trauma-focused methods best fits a person’s needs, goals and preferences. That discussion is ongoing and can shift as progress is made.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit work into a busy week, avoid travel time, and arrange shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals often offer flexible scheduling to help therapy fit around everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disorders

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBody imageCodependencyControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with addictions, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, depression, stress, anxiety, grief and eating concerns. Guilt and shame are listed among her additional focus areas.

How would she approach feelings of guilt or shame?

She combines client-centred listening with attachment-informed and trauma-focused work to help people name those emotions and see how they affect relationships and behaviour. Mindfulness is used to notice feelings without immediate reaction.

How much experience does she have?

She has 11 years of professional experience working with a range of concerns including addictions, trauma, parenting and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where does she practise?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the process to begin working with her?

Prospective clients should select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Deborah SmithBACP

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