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Hayley Hopper

Hayley Hopper, AASW

Australia

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AASW social worker - parenting and trauma

  • Guilt and shame
  • Attachment issues
  • Cognitive behavioural techniques

About Hayley

Hayley Hopper is an AASW social worker with 10 years' experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, trauma, parenting challenges, low self-esteem and depression. She lists attachment, caregiver stress, communication problems, post-traumatic stress and feelings of guilt and shame among her focus areas. Hayley works with adults who want practical ways to manage difficult feelings and relationships.

Hayley uses straightforward, evidence-based methods such as cognitive behavioural techniques alongside a person-centred and trauma-informed stance. Sessions look at the thoughts, feelings and behaviours that keep someone stuck. She helps people notice patterns, try different responses and practise small changes that fit real life.

Much of her work has involved parents and mothers navigating overwhelming responsibility, difficult relationships and the day-to-day stress of caregiving. She pays attention to attachment and how early experiences shape current relationships, without pathologising people for the ways they adapt.

People who come with a history of abuse, domestic and family violence, or significant family stress are supported through pacing and safety-focused planning. Hayley also works with people managing psychosocial disability and complex mental health needs, aiming to build on existing strengths and coping strategies.

Her sessions are collaborative and centred on clear, practical goals. Hayley describes the work as helping people make sense of what they are experiencing and practice manageable steps toward the changes they choose.

Approaches Hayley draws on and how they help online

Hayley describes using cognitive behavioural techniques alongside a person-centred and trauma-informed approach. Cognitive behavioural techniques look at the link between thoughts, feelings and actions and offer practical strategies for shifting unhelpful thinking and behaviour. This is useful for anxiety, low mood and clearing patterns that feed guilt or shame.

A person-centred approach focuses on the person's own goals and strengths, and supports them to make decisions that suit their life. Trauma-informed practice means attention to pacing, safety and how past events affect current responses without re-traumatising the person.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss which methods fit a person's needs, goals and preferences and adjust the plan as therapy progresses. This is collaborative and aims to identify small, manageable steps rather than sudden change.

Please confirm the session formats available before booking, as the biography does not state them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into everyday life by reducing travel time, enabling shorter check-ins or allowing conversations without being on camera. These practical benefits can help people keep therapy consistent alongside childcare, work or other commitments.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Australia

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, self-esteem and depression. Additional focus areas include attachment issues, caregiver stress, communication problems and guilt and shame.

How does she approach guilt and shame?

She uses practical, evidence-based techniques alongside a person-centred and trauma-informed stance. The focus is on noticing unhelpful thoughts and trying different responses in everyday situations.

What experience does she bring to this work?

Hayley has 10 years of experience as a social worker supporting people through mental health challenges, trauma, family stress and caregiving strain.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is an AASW social worker based in Australia.

Can I see her if I live outside Australia?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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